FAQ: Why “Friendly Hand?” Site Name Origin

We have a funny story, very steamy as well. Welcome to the Friendly Story of the Creation of

Friendly Hand

The Beginning

It starts a few months before our first post. I, Ava, was on whisper (Love the APP) and I was chatting with people and thinking about different sexual things.

In a moment of day dreaming my brain deemed me worthy of a titillating new thought. I wanted Vance to sext with someone, man or woman of his choosing, while I did all the work. I would blow, suck and edge him as long as he wanted. It turned me on so much to think he would be unable to touch himself.

When I proposed the idea, Vance loved it in theory.  However sometimes theory can take a bit to translate to reality.  He wasn’t sure how to find someone he wanted to randomly sext with.  Since, as I mentioned above, I don’t sext, I wasn’t exactly sure how to help him.

Friends who Flirt

Enter the Lust interest, Jay.  Jay and Vance hung out a bit, but were getting closer. Friendly conversation relieved that Jay was in fact gay. This peaked Vance’s interest, but he didn’t come out to him at first. Jay was a bit afraid he had freaked Vance out. Vance however was anything but freaked out.

Time moves on, and a few weeks later Vance turns to me and mentions he finds Jay hot.  He was curious how I felt about this, having discussed openness but not found anyone yet.  I was intrigued and told him I was fine if he wanted to talk to Jay about it.

Flirting Fun

The secret was out, Vance and Jay both are mutually attracted.  They start flirting.  They start discussing, but Vance held back as Jay’s bf was out of town and Jay did not have an open arrangement.  Jay however decided not to wait until the reunion to ask permission. Access was granted, so Vance and Jay were going to have a discussion.

Sexting Setup

I decided this was the perfect time to help Vance out.  He was turned on the night he confessed his lust for Jay, but that was just the tip of the ice burg.  To prepare, I wore just a pair of panties (nothing special) and placed my bullet vibrator on my clit, allowing the panties to hold it in place. Vance was lying on the bed, naked (mmmm), except for two ankle restraints.  I put the restraints together so he could not wiggle his legs too much.  He was instructed to keep his hands above his belly button.

While they talked Vance told Jay that he cums best from hand jobs. Sexting, sexting, sexting…. Jay asks Vance if he’s close.  Vance points out he is both not allowed to cum or to touch himself, however he did have a friendly hand.  I tell Vance to offer a dick pic to better explain. So with my hand holding his hard cock, my pale skin, purple fingernails, and freckles were a stark difference from his purple, red, throbbing dick.

Jay seemed to find it hot I was edging him.

So, our first dabble in group sex, sexting while I tortured my love with pleasure gave rise to the joke, a friendly hand. When Vance said to me that I should blog, which was exactly what I was thinking we began brainstorming.  In a fun group chat with Jay, we decided FriendlyHand.sexy was the perfect site name to post our evolving sexuality.  Thus, Friendly Hand was born from a Hand Job.