So this weekend was huge for my bf and me. Vance enjoys sexting while being edged.
A Quick History
He came out to me as bi after the first date, I felt so incredibly lucky to meet a man that I was attracted to intellectually, emotionally, and physically that was also bi. After we were together a few months we started to pursue a search to find the third that is right for us.
This is not a tale about finding a third, sadly. However I’m not too disappointed.
Jay and Vance
One of my Vance’s dear friends is gay. Vance only recenter found out, the friend, let’s call him Jay, wasn’t hiding it but it just hadn’t come up. Once that was in the open Vance got a bit of a lust for him. Vance already found Jay attractive but didn’t think anything of it until we knew it could be reciprocated.
Early in our relationship Vance made it clear that he’s not a strict monogamous, which is fine, I’m not necessarily either. Neither of us see the point of being completely strict about it. The only jealousy I feel is when I know I’m missing out on something.
So Saturday after spending the say with Jay, Vance talks to me about possibly playing with Jay. I said as long as you’re open with me and Jay’s boyfriend gives consent, I don’t have a problem with it.
Within an hour Vance told Jay. I hadn’t expected it so quickly. But Vance honestly thought Jay would say no, so he wanted to get it over with. But he didn’t. He quickly said that he was not interested in sex with a woman involved, which is fine.
Then came the discussion on weather Jay had permission or not. They had never discussed it, until last night. His boyfriend gave his consent.
A Sexting Scheme
A few weeks ago I had the brilliant fantasy idea of sucking my bf while he sexts with another person, male or female was fine. Vance wasn’t sure how to initiate that. Honestly I wasn’t either, until last night.
I have a friend I share my sexuality with, we can talk about anything. The following is the text I sent her after their phone sex.
Recap to Lenore
Whoa. So…. that was incredible. I edged Vance for over an hour, 80 minutes, in total he came without ejaculating 5 times while sexting Jay. After resting Vance fucked me, repeating “holy shit” more times than I can remember. To quote it was had “the best orgasm of [his] life
I chat with Jay after and he is willing to let me be a voyeur and he will come over tomorrow to play with my Vance.
So tonight Jay is coming over for dinner and fooling around with Vance. Vance has never done anal for health reason so this I’ll be making out, blow jobs and hand jobs.
I will be fully clothed as part of the arrangement I offered Jay for me to be able to be s part of Vance’s first bi experience in about 5 years, and his first experience within our relationship.
I’m so excited!!!